31 Ways to become The Proverbs 31 Woman

#12 Invest in spiritual training and development

Verse 31: Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

To move in fire and power to perform good works and exploits in the name of the Lord, here are  five training schools women in ministry must enrol in and graduate from with flying colours.

1. The school of genuine conversion: To have access to the secrets of God and perform creative miracles like Jesus, our profession of the faith must be sincere. Psalm 15:2-5 lists the qualities of those who will abide in the tabernacle of God as “The one whose walk is blameless, who does what is righteous, who speaks the truth from their heart; whose tongue utters no slander, who does no wrong to a neighbour, and casts no slur on others; who despises a vile person but honours those who fear the Lord; who keeps an oath even when it hurts, and does not change their mind; who lends money to the poor without interest;  who does not accept a bribe against the innocent.” There is no place for hypocrisy in ministry so work out your salvation with fear and trembling.

2. The school of brokenness: God will not use a vessel that is not broken because God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. Brokenness is explained in Philippians 2:3-4 as “ Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,  not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” Brokenness means thinking of others first,  letting go of your right for the sake of another and working together for the common benefit of others. If you are ready for ministry, brokenness is a requirement  as anointing without character is  one of the common personal tragedies of ministers.

3. The school of the dead: John 12:24 explains that “unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” In essence, unless the seed of carnality dies, the Lord cannot endow you with fire and power for good works. Manifestations of the flesh such as envy, rivalry, jealousy, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, discord etc must be eliminated to operate effectively in the realm of God’s power. Only those who are dead to the things of the world can witness and demonstrate the power of Christ.

4. The school of the word of God, prayer and fasting: These three spiritual activities form the backbone of ministerial success.  Luke 18: 1 reminds us “men always ought to pray and not faint.” Prayer must also be backed up with the word of God for the full demonstration of God’s power while fasting  must be observed to sharpen the spiritual senses. Strict discipline and constant practice in these three areas will add value to ministerial success.

5. The school of spiritual retreat: Oftentimes in the bible, Jesus was alone praying. A personal spiritual retreat is very useful when you hunger and thirst for the infilling of the Holy Spirit. Spiritual retreats keep you spiritually refreshed and recharged so its indispensable in ministry. Ezekiel 47:5 talks about the level of the infilling God desires “but now it was a river that I could not cross, because the water had risen and was deep enough to swim in—a river that no one could cross.” This level of depth comes at a price which spiritual retreats can help you attain.

Like the sons of Issachar who had an understanding of the times and seasons and knew what Israel should do (1 Chronicles 12:32), ministry requires understanding and wisdom.  When we walk and work with the Lord, it is our responsibility to develop ourselves spiritually.  The gifts of God are the skills needed to get the job done while the fruits of the spirit are the Christ like qualities we need to work together as the body of Christ. Spiritual training must not be overlooked as it aids maturity and growth.

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31 Ways to become The Proverbs 31 Woman

#9 Evolve into an effective female minister

Verse 29: Many daughters have done well, but you excel them all.

I am a great fan of anyone who does the work of God with a sincere heart. However, being female myself I have a soft spot for women who teach the gospel out of pure devotion to Jesus Christ. Just like the Proverbs 31 woman, the woman who excels other women is the one whose kingdom service is recognised and accepted by God. (more…)

How to Discover and Recover Yourself as a Woman

women destined for God's purpose

Even though women have come a long way since bible times, many still struggle with fitting in, finding acceptance, identifying their calling, establishing their ministry and laying hold on their purpose in life. So how can the Christian woman find her place in this crowded world?

Woman: The help mate
After God decided it was not good for man to be alone, he created a helpmate for him in the form of a woman Genesis 2:18. At the 1st Women’s Deliverance Programme organised by MFM UK, Pastor Mrs Shade Olukoya; the wife of The General Overseer had a few things to say about the woman.

  • A woman is a resourceful person without lack
  • A woman is a solution to loneliness
  • A woman is a solution to insecurity
  • A woman is a completion to incompleteness
  • A woman is a sufficient aid
  • A woman is a honest and suitable companion
  • A woman is a strong fence around a building

A voyage of self discovery
Every woman must go on a voyage of self discovery before she can find her place. The vision of the Women’s Deliverance is to help women discover themselves and to recover their lost glory. The life of every woman involves discovery and recovery.

Discover Christ and know yourself
When a woman comes to Christ the revealer, she discovers a particular air space has been given to her to occupy and she must determine not to occupy the planet for nothing. A woman’s presence is to be felt in the Church as she discharges her God given duties, she is to have a presence in the community and she is meant to make an impact. Without women in God’s plan for creation, the whole world will be meaningless.

The Woman’s enemy
Luke 13:11 tells the story of a woman who had been crippled by an evil spirit. The spirit held her bound for 18 years and she was unable to stand up straight. When the enemy attacked her, the situation of her life changed and she who was designed to be a mother of life became a burden of life. She who was designed to be a giver became a beggar, the enemy stole from her and she lost her power as a woman to protect and to support. The plan of the devil is to destroy women so every woman must arise and fight the battle that will stop and rubbish the enemy before the enemy gets the chance to stop and rubbish them.

An invitation to the mountain top of liberation
When Jesus the healer spoke to the crippled woman in Luke 13:12, his words “woman, you are set free from your infirmity” was a healing balm to all the wrongs and hurts in her life. The statement was a missile sent to scatter the decision of darkness over her life. Whatever a woman’s current situation, she is not to give up. She is to rule over, to fight it out and must not bargain for anything short of victory.

7 Prophetic utterances to move you forward
* By the power of the Holy Ghost let my destiny arise and shine
*Powers of witchcraft and familiar spirits hear the word of the Lord. I receive deliverance I  am no longer your prey
*Every enemy of my divine testimony hear the word of the Lord be paralyzed for I shall reach my goal
*Powers that stopped my parents you are a liar you shall not stop me. By the power in the blood of Jesus I shall move forward, I shall go from glory to glory, I shall move from victory to victory in the name of Jesus
*My good dreams, my song of victory and my testimony hear the word of the Lord arise, materialise in the name of Jesus
*Powers of hell and grave hear me by the power in the blood of Jesus. I shall not die but live to declare the works of God
* My destiny hear the word of the Lord. You shall not be buried, you shall not be hidden in the name of Jesus

As you discover yourself and recover your God given destiny, may the words of the powerful music ministration we listened to at the programme burst forth from your lips and may your testimony be This is the power of Christ in me.

In Christ alone my hope is found,
He is my light, my strength, my song;
this Cornerstone, this solid Ground,
firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What heights of love, what depths of peace,
when fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My Comforter, my All in All,
here in the love of Christ I stand.

In Christ alone! who took on flesh
Fulness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones he came to save:
Till on that cross as Jesus died,
The wrath of God was satisfied –
For every sin on Him was laid;
Here in the death of Christ I live.

There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain:
Then bursting forth in glorious Day
Up from the grave he rose again!
And as He stands in victory
Sin’s curse has lost its grip on me,
For I am His and He is mine –
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.

No guilt in life, no fear in death,
This is the power of Christ in me;
From life’s first cry to final breath.
Jesus commands my destiny.
No power of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home,
Here in the power of Christ I’ll stand.